Ebay, many trans shops? Here from me?
Should not be extremely hard to find, but maybe not used a lot here in Oz and a bit more limited availability.
The C6 was used for about 30-ish years and if you get the proper bell housing and tailshaft they should all work for your application. Even if you get a different tailshaft you can always get a custom driveshaft done up... a bit of cost, but easy to do for a shop.
The R servo has mythology around it as it was used in the 428CJ/SCJ equipped cars. I am no expert but my limited understanding is the larger the servo, the firmer the shifts. Basically a pressure valve that helps time shifts based on fluid pressure so same pressure and larger servo area equals faster/firmer shifts... at a basic level.
As noted any C6 housing can take pretty much any servo, just a consideration to look into when rebuilding.